Yin and Yang; are they meant for each other?This question got me thinking a lot last night. I'm saying this as a view on whether man and woman are meant for each other, or is there something else that's better? I mean you watch all these movies, read all these articles about successful couples, love, romance all that whatnot, but doesn't it get you thinking? When is my true love going to appear? How come my life's not like that fairytale? I started on this when my friend got ditched by another guy. That guy didn't love her at all. Not one single bit. And now another friend of mine says that another guy was in love with her, and it's as if he's so devoted to her, when he only met her for about three months. Think about it, if her love life is so fruitful, why not other people? How come there's a guy for her already, when another girl just got dumped by someone she liked? Somehow it's ironic. Or maybe it's not. SO here I begin my reasoning.
"Love at first sight ... I think I like him."
That's what I keep hearing from my friends. They always claim to be in love with a guy they met. Be it in Church, tuition, online games or whatever the hell they do, somehow there's always a guy they like. And they love to tell me about HIM. I find it a little uncomfortable sometimes, seeing as I don't fall in love so regularly. I don't even think it's love. Really. I always
think or even
know they're just being too hopeful and are too new for love. So much sometimes, that I get a bit frustrated and become too straightforward towards them. After a few weeks, days or even hours, they might just come back to me and say, "He broke up with me." How predictable. I may sound horrible now, but isn't that the truth? Just so you know, I never believed in true love; or the Yin and Yang theory. Although it sounds so damn logical. But my thoughts aren't always right.
"I hate him so much! I thought he loved me! All guys are playboys!"
That's what my friend said after someone ditched her. He used her. Just to get over his own problem, dealing with his ex. She cried the whole night and the whole morning just because of him. Her friend told her "Why cry over a guy who doesn't deserve your tears?" I agreed. Then suddenly she'll hate the guy and probably hate a few more too. Because of one guy, that happens. Guys are heartbreakers, but I won't say they were never heartbroken either. There are consequences that girls go through after a break up with someone they really liked. Maybe they'll turn the other way and look for other guys. Or maybe they'll never ever like a guy again. Maybe they will look for companionship on the wrong side.
Yang and Yang - what the heck?
You know what I'm referring to. Girls with girls. Lesbians. Bisexuals. You name it. I'm okay with them. Not because I assume they have relationship problems. It's only because of experience, but I don't have that much in love. I don't think I do, although my peeps say I give great advice. Hmm, I can consider becoming a social worker. No, no! Back to the point. My friends are lesbians. Most of them. They have their partners, people that agree with their views. They
love each other. I don't see why is there a problem with that. Not interfering with God's grand design is it? He created love. I'm not discriminating, nor am I against His Word. The more I look at it, the more it seems alright. Even political leaders are allowing these relationships into the world. Political leaders, the ones who lead their countries into many victories, or failures. They made that decision. Maybe it's just because these lesbians see something in each other. Something guys can't ever see, or take a longer time to find out. I may be sounding a little weird now, but hey, can't blame me for being a little too optimistic. Other devoted Christians think it's wrong, and it's a crime, because of Adam and Eve. They look at the hardcore evidence first, but never thought about what He could have said. Enough about Christianity and their views, isn't this all about love?
In other words, I don't care if my friends are lesbians. They are still. My friends. I don't see why other people, who are straight, seem as if lesbianism is so disgusting, so contagious. They will start to avoid them, and gossip about them. It is so unreasonable. They find love too, right?
What do you think I am? Straight? Not straight? Who wants to tell you? :)
"My real answer, is ... perhaps."
Perhaps Yin and Yang are meant for each other.
Perhaps they're not.
I think it depends on the other. That's all. ('OLY CRAP THIS IS A LONG POST)
left a mark at Saturday, March 15, 2008